How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You: The Fail-Proof, Fool-Proof Method

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I read Tracy Cabot's book, How To Make a Man Fall In Love With You, years ago, when I was 15 years younger, and always looking for the "answer" to learning how to bridge the Mars vs Venus gap, though I didn't have a name for the gap back then. Like another reviewer who talks about the three modes from which we communicate and respond, which are visually, auditorially, and kinesthetically, I had studied Neuro Linguistic Programming, among other studies in an attempt to strengthen my communication skills. Fifteen years later, as an adult educator, I often recommend Tracy Cabot's book in my classes on communication, because I believe that it is a simple way to learn this marvelous technique for communicating not only between the two sexes, but between any two human beings. Where else can you find so many wonderful tips on communication in such an inexpensive, easy to read, little package? I just wish that Tracy would put together a wonderful training video on these skills.

Listen this book works. I have gotten so many men to fall in love now that I got my husband I need to read one that tells me how to stay in love. Everything will not apply to you exactly but use your mind to improvise and you will get him.

This is a decent read for broadening your psychological knowledge. It has some good points and "emergency" tactics. But some of the tactics that are recommended to be implemented regularly are quite hard to do for several reasons. First, you always have to be self-cautious of what you are doing, like watching your own every move, which doesn't let you relax and enjoy and is quite unnatural. Also, trying to implement some tactics made the guy feel uncomfortable, he sensed it wasn't the "real" behavior even though i had somebody else watch it from the side and they didn't notice it being obvious or me not doing it well. And also, it makes you concentrate on you and your own behavior and tactics and not on the person in front of you. I would much rather watch them and analyze their behavior than having to be fully conscious of my own. Good read, has some great points, I would recommend to read it once, but wouldn't use it as a reference book.

This book presents a unique approach to snagging guys. It teaches you how to use psychology to your advantage. The author argues that there are 3 types of men: visual, auditory, feelings. You speak to and treat each one differently. For example, when talking to a visual man, you say stuff like, "I SEE why you have that opinion". It makes them think that you really are on the same level and that you understand them. I can see why, from a logical point of view, that her advice and techniques would be successful. I was intrigued very much so by her "method" and have yet to try it for myself. To be honest, it wasn't what I expected. Sometimes, it got too wrapped up in psychology that it started to make relationships a little impersonal and mechanical. Well, at least she has her PH.D., so I guess her approach is accurate. I'd still recommend this, though, if you want a different read.

She does have an interesting theory that every man is either a "seeing" "Feeling" or "hearing" man and depending on which they are is how you communicate with them. Since I have not applied her methods I am not going to say it doesn't work, but "Make up, Don't Break up" makes much more sense in understanding men & being able to get closer to them.

It's the sweetest book written in the 1980's but contains some simple fundamentals about communication = vocabulary styles. I have no idea about the 'program' promoted in the text, but it sure has some good communication tools that are helpful, useful and great for reaching a larger group of individuals.

Trash.Very old-fashioned. I wouldn’t recommend this book to anyone; I had a visceral reaction to women encouraging women to act like this.

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I bought this book years ago, and lent it out, never getting it returned. It’s an interesting book. I enjoyed reading it, and have looked for this look for years. Soo excited to have it again. Will not be lending it out again. Lol

Don't know how effective! Present for a lonely friend...

著者のTracy Cabotが書いた本という事で、読んで見ようと思いました。心理学者の著者はいつもいかに人は恋に落ちるかを研究。米国の女性雑誌や結婚を考えるまじめな出会い系サイトなどに恋愛相談のアドバイザーとして、そのコラムをよく見かけており、私はファンでした。　英文ながら、電子辞書片手に知らない単語を調べながらも、表現・文法は優しくかかれて読み安かったです。　内容は外国人の彼氏を持った人向けではなく、国籍や習慣に係らず万人に言えそう。当たり前でしょ、と思われる事も書いてありますが、心理学者らしく論理的にどうして、と、こうなっている、だからこうする、というのが論理的に指南されています。別の著者が書いた『ルールズ』も読みましたが、こちらの方が忍耐もなくずっと現代的です。　気になる相手とデートする場合、いつも１，２回で終ってしまう人、振り向いて欲しい人がいる人、付き合っていても不安になってしまう人、好きなのにけんかや不満を持ってしまう人にお薦めです。どうすれば心地よく付き合っていけるかも書いてあります。　読むのにお薦めの本ですが、読んだからと言って全員Happyで恋愛が成功したというデータも保証もないし日本語版もないので星４つにしました。