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Review: A wonderfully readable book ! Being unfamiliar with the term Narcissist , other than realising that it had a likely connection to Narcissus in Greek mythology , Wikipedia came to the rescue with a short summary phrase which I have borrowed here : "Narcissism is the personality trait of egotism, vanity, conceit, or simple selfishness." If you know someone who is like this - many of us do - read this ! Great cover too - in the background the word "ME" is shown over and over again - so if you know someone whose favourite phrase is "What about Me ?" and whose favourite topic of converstaion is themself , this could be the book that will help you ! Coincidentally , "Mimi" ( Me Me ) was the nickname that we had applied to our Narcissist before we even knew the term or the book - no surprise that we found it appropriate !
Review: No lo recomiendo, para los que hemos vivido con personas narcisistas la empatía hacia ellos no funciona para nada. Lo mejor es no seguir siendo una fuente validación para ellos ósea hacer la técnica de la piedra gris, y no tener contacto, les recomiendo mejor este libro: The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment de Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman. Si están leyendo esto les deseo lo mejor en hacer una vida nueva, salgan de esa relación, toma tiempo pero es posible, disfruten cada batalla ganada.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #301,000 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #281 in Psychopathology #841 in Communication & Social Skills (Books) #4,078 in Family & Relationships |
| Customer Reviews | 4.5 4.5 out of 5 stars (1,540) |
| Dimensions  | 15.24 x 1.35 x 22.86 cm |
| Edition  | 3rd |
| Generic Name  | 1 |
| ISBN-10  | 1684037700 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1684037704 |
| Importer  | Atlantic Publishers and Distributors (P) Ltd., 7/22, Ansari Road, Darya Ganj, New Delhi - 110002 INDIA, Email – customercare@atlanticbooks.com, Ph – 011-47320500 |
| Item Weight  | 1 kg 50 g |
| Language  | English |
| Packer  | New Harbinger Publications |
| Print length  | 218 pages |
| Publication date  | 1 October 2021 |
| Publisher  | New Harbinger Pubns Inc |
| Reading age  | 5 years and up |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Review
*by H***S on 10 November 2010*

A wonderfully readable book ! Being unfamiliar with the term Narcissist , other than realising that it had a likely connection to Narcissus in Greek mythology , Wikipedia came to the rescue with a short summary phrase which I have borrowed here : "Narcissism is the personality trait of egotism, vanity, conceit, or simple selfishness." If you know someone who is like this - many of us do - read this ! Great cover too - in the background the word "ME" is shown over and over again - so if you know someone whose favourite phrase is "What about Me ?" and whose favourite topic of converstaion is themself , this could be the book that will help you ! Coincidentally , "Mimi" ( Me Me ) was the nickname that we had applied to our Narcissist before we even knew the term or the book - no surprise that we found it appropriate !

### ⭐⭐ Review
*by G***L on 18 January 2026*

No lo recomiendo, para los que hemos vivido con personas narcisistas la empatía hacia ellos no funciona para nada. Lo mejor es no seguir siendo una fuente validación para ellos ósea hacer la técnica de la piedra gris, y no tener contacto, les recomiendo mejor este libro: The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment de Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman. Si están leyendo esto les deseo lo mejor en hacer una vida nueva, salgan de esa relación, toma tiempo pero es posible, disfruten cada batalla ganada.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Review
*by L***E on 9 December 2009*

For a couple of years now i've been on a quest to learn about narcissists & how to deal with them. Several years ago i lived with a man(boy) for 2 years (he is still in my life). at first his attentiveness & fixation on me & absolute "love" seemed great. inside, though, i had fears that it all couldn't be true. after a short period came the criticisms, blames & bullying, manipulating, control & always him trying to shut me off from speaking. he could not/would not hear my voice. making a longer story shorter, he started reminding me of my ex, who did almost identical things with me. i wondered what it was about ME that magnetized these people towards me. during this wonderment i was trying to diagnose this man/boy & he seemed to fit just about every personality disorder in the books, but, alas, when i came upon narcissism, it could not be denied that his spectrum of behavior patterns fit the narcissistic brand like a glove, and IN SPADES. and i had patiently listened over the years to the little he offered in childhood stories, which he glorified in the beginning, yet, after awhile, the neglect, the dismissal, the non-love emerged, though he has not been able to label these things as such - - yet. i read Nina Brown's books - Children of the Self-Absorbed & Loving the Self-Absorbed, then went online & read tons of Sam Vaknin's writings about narcissism, which was wonderfully illuminating! i would return back to Sam's stuff time after time over the years to help myself to understand what i was dealing with. Then, several weeks ago, Amazon advertising alerted me to Wendy Behary's book: Disarming the Narcissist. i ordered it speedy delivery - a first for me!! This book has finally given me what i've been wanting for years - a real & compassionate way to talk to these people without engaging the anger, running away, freezing (going silent - just agreeing) or becoming contentious, otherwise known as fight/flight/freeze. This book has given me insight into my past & some ideas as to how narcissists have turned up in my life more than once. my own deeper introspection sets me free. i keep working on it. meanwhile, Wendy Behary has given communication/expression strategies in dealing with the narcissist(s) in your life. This has produced amazing results for me on two rather serious occasions. my dear narcissist was once again blaming me for something he did & through compassionate listening & description of his & my feelings, the results were amazing. i asked for 2 things: that he admit & apologize. he did both. it took a couple of rounds to get HIM to say the right words AND to give eye contact, but he did it; i kissed him on the head in appreciation & then we continued having a wonderful evening w/out a fight, or contention, or blame. this IS serious work, folks. i'll not kid you - for me, i prepared what i was going to say & wrote it out, so i'd get it right, so it wasn't an instantaneous thing; it took careful thought & wording & i prepared him earlier that i had something serious to talk about later. he's still his same person, trying to fault me about things i said, or didn't say, trying to get me to agree to all of his negative convictions about life & society & people, cutting me off when i'm speaking, pontificating self-righteously & not standing for interruptions when HE'S talking - most of which can be sloughed off by me. one has to truly pick when to put that foot down. one cannot really change the narcissist or his/her patterns, but one can put a block on how much blame, criticism, projection one will allow the narcissist to 'get in.' so, i HIGHLY recommend this book to anyone who has a person, or people in their lives who overstep their bounds with you, tend to push you around, dismiss you & your feelings, brag about themselves unrelentingly & blame you for the things they do. Wendy Behary talks of schemas & cognitive/behavioral therapy - all which deserve a looking into if one wants to really understand themselves and the people they tend to fall "into place" with. ~ Lanette, Connecticut

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