VansOld Skool Classic Canvas womens Sneakers

I'm looking to buy a size 10 and i'm a little confused here, to get a size 10 for men's U.S do I have to order the 10 B(M) US Women/ 8.5 D(M) US Men?

Im a size 13 what should i get ?

How do I find my size 9/5

do the laces tie?