They Wish They Were Us Hardcover – August 4, 2020

To say that Jessica Goodman’s debut novel, “They Wish They Were Us”, is set in an exclusive community in New England doesn’t really convey the image that one needs to hold while reading this sophisticated and absorbing book. The setting is on Long Island’s Gold Coast where the titans of industry in the late 19th and very early 20th centuries built their mansions. I’d recommend googling “images: Gold Coast mansions, Long Island, NY” to get in the right frame of mind. The book is marketed as a YA novel, but it is absolutely suitable for any adult who has access to the Urban Dictionary in order to look up “beer pong” or “gorpcore attire.” It’s narrated by Jill Newman, a senior at exclusive Gold Coast Prep and a member of the even more elite Players, a not-so-secret secret society. Each year, eight freshmen are carefully selected to undergo the initiation process, and they eagerly endure humiliation, embarrassment, and even life-threatening “pops” to be considered part of the select few. But Jill and her best friend Nikki are determined to change things, now that Nikki is “toastmaster.” When they were freshmen, Shaila Arnold was killed, not by hazing, but by a murderer. Her boyfriend Graham Calloway confessed and has spent the past few years in a juvenile detention facility, awaiting transfer to a state prison upon his 18th birthday. Midway through the year, Jill is contacted by Graham’s sister, Rachel, who believes that there is proof that her brother is actually innocent. Jill is torn between exploring the possibility that Graham didn’t kill “every wannabe’s best friend, Shaila” and maintaining at least a 93 percent average (and preferably a 96 percent average in order to be accepted at Brown, one of the eight Ivy League colleges). Ms. Goodman gets inside Jill’s mind and brings her readers with her. We can see the gears meshing as Jill weighs alternatives between conforming to the world of the Players and following her conscience to search for truth. This puts Jill in a tenuous position. Secretly, she’s a “scholarship kid” from a family that gets by month to month. Yet, as a Player, she socializes with the children of families who can easily pay their kids’ way into whatever college they find desirable. Gifts of a million dollars are commonplace, and parents are often absent from home because they are overseas or weekending “out east” in the Hamptons. I was impressed by the off-hand manner in which Goodman, the op-ed editor for Cosmopolitan magazine, handles the lifestyle of the kids and families of the “one percent.” Their world is F. Scott Fitzgerald of the 1920s, only a hundred years later when drugs are abundant and easily attainable, a fourteen-year-old can wake into a liquor store and walk out with two cases of beer, and some teen’s luxurious home is available on a weekend for “pops” or parties. Some readers will be critical of the R-rated language used by the teens, the use of drugs and alcohol, and the casual attitudes toward sex. That’s a paradigm shift from 50 years ago. I recommend this book to adult readers who want to gain insight into a youth culture that may be quite foreign to them....Jim Glynn

An entertaining Young Adult read. Great for fans of Gossip Girl. Lots of high school angst, lies, betrayals, and secrets.The protagonist Jill Newman is now a high school senior at the prestigious Gold Coast Prep. Along with her friends Nikki, Marla, Quinton, Henry, and Robert, she should be excited that they now rule the exclusive society, The Players. They are now the leaders of the privileged few. However, they cannot escape the fact that there should be eight Players, not six. But three years ago, on initiation night, Jill’s best friend Shaila Arnold was killed by her boyfriend and fellow Player Graham. Graham confessed and has been in prison since the murder. But now he claims he is innocent. So, what actually happened that night?Jill is caught in the middle. Should she try to find out what really happened and possibly alienate her friends, or don’t rock the boat and get through senior year? As the story evolves and secrets are slowly revealed, we learn Jill’s true character.I thought the book gave a realistic view of how teens deal with their issues and the decisions they must make to maintain the popular elite image. I loved the focus on female friendships and loyalty. I was kept in suspense trying to figure out who really did kill Shaila and why. The plot twists were surprising yet believable.

At first this book was slow, I thought I will hate it because of how slow it was, I even started reading the first pages and moved on to another book but I decided to take it back, and boy it did not disappoint, everyone talking about the plot twist but to be honest I was suspicious of everyone, every single soul and when it all came to the killer I was so happy they were able to get him and send him to jail, this book kinda reminds me of agggtm which is the book who got me into thrillers, and to be honest this book what’s amazing, yes it’s way to slow and yes you have to be suspicious of everyone but it’s right under your nose literally the good guy, cause psycho are always the nice ones, 10/10, I will recommend this book.

This book was entertaining enough. I didn't see the ending coming so theres that

They Wish They Were Us by Jessica Goodman, tells the story of Jill and the other members of the Players, who attend an elite school where inclusion is limited and exclusion is the norm. Hazing at its finest and worst is what makes the school run from year to year. The students who are picked to become Players get privileges that no other students receive but they get these privileges at a price. Jill and her group are seniors looking forward to college and their bright futures since they’ve put the death of their friend behind them until new evidence enlightens the police that they may have arrested the wrong person. Amidst the elite and their plans, and their ongoing school expectations, the students are derailed and need to help find the true killer. Strong characters in a fascinating political mess tell this story of discrimination, manipulation, and abuse. The protagonist, Jill, brings brains, strength, and empathy to this unique book, 5 stars!

I like this author’s books, but this one was a bit odd. There were some things I could not suspend my disbelief about.

I wasn’t sure how I would feel about this book based on the description. However, I found myself drawn in quickly. The more I read, the more intrigued I became. I love that it had me rooting for different characters even if they had unbecoming qualities. I definitely recommend this as a great coming of age stories for young adults. There are many lessons to be learned.

The media could not be loaded.  This book is so well written to a point I felt the character pain and the things that went down. In my opinion if there was to be a part two to this book I would want it to be an ending to how Jill’s brother ended up dieing. Great book so far.

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Boring

This was bought as a present - the recipient loved it.

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Didnt like the book at all! Also damaged