WomanizerPro40 Clitoris Vibrator Sex Toy | Clit Stimulator with 6 Suction Speeds | Vibrating Dildo Adult Toys for Women | Clit Sucker Sexual Pleasure Tools for Women | Personal Massager | Black

Before my review, some relevant details about me: I was dealt an unfortunate hand in my early years: A man who suffers from sociopathy (Antisocial Personality Disorder) sexually abused me across many years of my childhood. I've had a gun held to my head (by the same person). In elementary school, a stranger (male in his 50s or 60s) tried to kidnap me. I come from a family that struggled with drugs & alcohol, so home life was chaotic. And on top of all of this, I have a genetic illness: bipolar disorder, which I was only recently diagnosed with but which I have evidently had since adolescence.Fortunately, I had two partners when I was 16 and 18 who were very patient, kind, and gentle with me, and who helped me learn that sexuality is not inherently an awful thing. Unfortunately, I continue to struggle with PTSD, and I have a deep-rooted need to remain in control of my body & circumstances. When I use a vibrator or dildo alone, memories often intrude from my childhood and make me deeply upset. I also have an issue wherein anytime I have intercourse (with my husband or using a vibrator), I get a UTI, no matter how many preventative measures I take, so I have to take a medication each time. These are the primary reasons why I looked for a clitoral stimulator as a new toy and bought the poorly named Womanizer Pro40.This toy has a potentially steep learning curve. It took me an hour and a half of trying it alone, and half an hour with my husband's help, before I figured out the right placement, angle, and setting. And then... OMG. It was an intense experience: one of deep joy & release, and also of extreme fear. There was uncontrollable screaming. There was a rush of fluid that I thought was pee, so I basically flung aside the toy, and bolted from the bed. (It wasn't; it was "squirting," which I always thought was a myth.) In short, I orgasmed the most intensely I've ever experienced. It scared me, and it scared my husband. He couldn't tell if I was happy or upset -- which is probably because I was both. It was the utter loss of control.I've used it multiple times since. I've discovered that if I use it while sitting upright in the shower, the orgasm is not as intense. Each orgasm is also a different physical experience, which is odd -- as other reviewers have mentioned. Recently, alone, I used it laying down again, and had the same screaming, out-of-control response as the original time. But it wasn't awful. It felt really good.So, the takeaway: It's an effective product once you figure out how to make it work. I'm really grateful that the company made it. If you have a history of being abused, you might find it frightening the first time, but after that, I think you may actually find it healing & helpful psychologically, as I do. You're likely going to lose control of your body, but you're also in control because you're alone and you're choosing to use the toy, and you know what to expect. If you're really relaxed during this massive orgasm, you may not only squirt but also pee, as another reviewer mentioned. Playing in the shower is best. If you're anything like me, you won't be able to control the screaming or moaning. I have to hold a washcloth over my mouth. Even with that, you're going to be loud, so make sure no one's home/around.It feels a little awkward divulging so much about myself in this post, but I share it in hopes that it will help others with pasts like mine, because I know I am not alone. As a final side note, check to see whom you're buying it from. I had to look down on the right to select directly from Amazon; it was a slightly higher price, but I felt more safe buying the product directly from them.

I’ve tried the Satisfyer Pro 2 and the Belles Thump before giving this one a shot, both of which I quite liked. The Belessa was magic until its battery shat, but a bit weak. The Satisfyer had okay strength and settings and a better handle, but the suction sensation just wasn’t on par with this. If this maintains its batteries it’s my new fave.The battery life is exceptional so far, and I like that it’s easy to clean by pulling the rubber ring off the head of it. It has six speeds, and even as someone who is probably desensitized from too much toy enjoyment, the third and fourth levels are enough. I like it when there’s a level I can’t quite handle, it satisfies something in my mind to know I could have more. It’s a much better feeling than being frustrated by one setting too low.The head forms a good seal and fits where it needs to go easily. I recommend a little lube around the part that meets your anatomy, friction causes discomfort quickly with toys like this. Even the lowest setting is pretty intense, especially for new users, just start low and get used to it.My only complaint about this product is I don’t really like the handle design that much. It feels a little cheap, light, and unwieldy for what I paid. That’s a nitpick though, the functionality here is good enough for me to overlook it, especially if the battery lasts.

Item doesn't charge. Regardless of how many hours item charges for, battery remains low. Strangely, the charging light of the item went green after about 2-3 hours of charging, but when I disconnected the item from the charger and turned it on, the light was red immediately, and suction was very weak, indicating the battery was still low. Tried reset function (pressing "+" and "-" buttons at the same time), no effect. Gave it a few extra hours and changed to a wall outlet for charging (instead of a PC's USB port), no dice. When I'd plug the toy back into the charger after seeing the red lights, it would turn green after exactly 1 minute and 10 seconds of charging, but as soon as I disconnected and turned it on again, it went right back to red. Figured this might happen, as it's a commonly reported issue on Amazon and other sites, not only with this particular model, but others in the Womanizer line, but I hoped I'd get a working one. Perhaps it's related to supply chain issues / defective production that started with the pandemic? Not sure, but I really hope these issues get resolved. At least it was beautiful, soft, and easy to clean.