Day Bang: How To Casually Pick Up Girls During The Day

I've thought about not giving the book a review till I got at least 3 bangs from day game which would show the effectiveness of the advice that Roosh gives in "Day Bang." While getting the bang is the ultimate goal of day game, I've realized that the whole point of the book is to make the budding (or even veteran) players be more proficient in building a connection and comfort through conversation without silly routines, moves, or lines--which is what I've found to be the common day game advice given out there on the internet. The advice Roosh gives in Day Bang is helpful and practical. It is not until the last chapter that common mistakes from day game approaches by guys were discussed, but it was through the advice given that I began to see the flaws in my approaches. For example, one of my biggest mistakes is "going personal" right away by opening with a greeting, a personal question, or a compliment then not investing enough in a conversation by going for a number as soon as possible (when it's often unneccessary). What often happens next is that the girl says she has a boyfriend or just kept walking. The advice given is practical because it's simply doable. For the totally nervous person, Roosh makes you go through a mental exercise that you can do before your approaches. For people with difficulty generating conversation ideas and maintaining the ramble, there are lots of scenarios and examples given that are common where women are usually encountered...and yet, I felt that there's no need to memorize or duplicate the sample dialogues because of the doability of the advice. If that doesn't help, he suggests a simple talking exercise you can do at home. Critics might say that the advice given is so simple that any idiot could've figured it out eventually and that this is written for social retards. Wrong! Not all people grow up to be social butterflies. Also, there are many socially well-adjusted people out there who are led to believe false assumptions or myths about attracting the opposite sex. And finally, despite the actions we repeatedly do in our lives... how often do we stop and truly reflect on specific changes that we would like to do? Especially in attracting and having impromptu conversations with random women in a random situation? Day Bang facilitated such thinking and action for me. I'm the type of person who does well in intimate conversation **given the chance** in certain scenarios like parties or other social gatherings. I'm also not the type who likes loud clubs or bars. So at the outset, I have limited options for meeting women. And from my experiences, women usually have their emotional guards up in public. This is simply unacceptable and has been a cause of grief for me for a long time. Not anymore! This is why I think the "elderly opener" was brilliant. It was one of those things that I've done before but never realized its power. It makes the girl engage you without thinking that they're being hit on. I think of it now as my battering ram against the stupid female notion that they shouldn't be hit on any venue especially if they're "not in the mood to hook up." With the elderly opener, I now feel that my "intimate-conversational self" will have a way to potentially shine. So whenever I go out to day game, I'm now a "confused old man" who walks slow, needs constant clarificaton, rambles a lot because he read many articles, and complains about how hard it is to choose because he's had better choices during his travel adventures in Europe. I feel the same way about the other concepts like "dropping bait," "rambling," and GALNUC but you'll have to get the book to know what I mean. There are girls I approached, post-Day Bang reading, who still say they're in a relationship or kept on walking...but they're engaging me in conversation more. With some tweaks here and there and committed practice with day game, it's only a matter of *when* for me to bang them. I can feel it already, this is why I thought a Day Bang book review is due even with pending bangs from me. Thanks, Roosh! 5 out of 5 stars, buy "Day Bang"...now.

Day Bang is the book that finally did it for me. Or, I should say that after reading Day Bang I immediately changed my approach to meeting women and quickly found success. I can truly say that without this book I would not have dated several great women and I would not be with my sweet and beautiful girlfriend of over two years. We met during the day when I approached her, started a casual conversation, exchanged information and soon after started seeing each other. We love each other and we wouldn't have that if I had never read this book. Day Bang is thorough without being overly long. At just over 200 pages, you'll be able to read it quickly and then you'll re-read it and re-read it. But it leaves nothing out-this is a comprehensive, step by step guide that takes the reader from "approach" to "opening" to "ramble/conversation" to "closing." It's straight forward and scientific. This is NOT fluffy nonsense that just encourages the reader to "be confident." It is a system and a set of tools that teaches men what works, what does not work and WHY. Roosh did an huge number of approaches before writing this book and his teaching reflects real, earned knowledge. Day Bang is daytime focused as the name suggests. If you've thought that meeting girls occurred only at bars, clubs and parties (and you've been frustrated with that scene) this book is the answer you're looking for. First reading Bang, which focuses more on night venues is recommended but not required. Given the unique nature of Roosh's writing (there's just true stuff in here that you won't find in other books) and the results you'll get if you apply it, this book is worth WAY more than the price tag.

One thing I learned about reading Day Bang is: don't be embarrassed that you're reading a book called Day Bang. To be sure, the goal of the book is spelled out in the title, but there's a lot more in there than that, even for a middle-aged guy like me. Being divorced and getting back into the dating market was much tougher than I thought it would be. Sure, I could get even multiple dates with women up to ten years younger than me, and everybody had fun, but they didn't go anywhere and ended with a fizzle. So I needed to rethink my strategies, and along with other sources around the internet, I found Roosh's books and website. Roosh is a very efficient writer; I wouldn't say that his phrasing is poetic by any means, but he certainly writes clearly and gets his concepts across. This is what you want in a book like this, and it helps that Roosh will often disclose personal anecdotes of both his failures and successes to emphasize a point. Nowhere in the book do you get the impression that he is cataloging his notches to feed his ego. I will say that as such, it's not an entertaining read, but it is a provocative, and in my case, something of an inspirational read. If you were to summarize the core concepts of Day Bang and other "Game" type writings, they're both obvious and yet groundbreaking. "Be confident", "be interesting", and "be charming" seem like no brainers, but for some reason "don't put her on a pedestal" is contrary to how modern men have been taught. There are plenty of books and websites out there that discuss these concepts in detail, but Day Bang differentiates itself by including plenty of practical guidance on making the approach and other areas of building attraction. Like where to sit in a coffee shop to maximize the chances that you'll be able to approach a woman, or the "elderly opener", a rambling way to break the ice in an innocuous manner. For older guys, Day Bang is more practical than Roosh's previous book, Bang, primarily because we're not going to go out to loud clubs or bars anymore to grind our pot bellies against twenty-somethings. Day Bang emphasizes the indirect approach, which is much more suited to meeting women during the day at the coffee shops or grocery stores that we're more likely to frequent. The best thing about Bang and Day Bang are how to reframe your thinking to not only improve your chances of successfully approaching women, but how to improve yourself. Ultimately, there are no magical words or gestures that will shake women loose from the girl tree and into your lap, but surprisingly the proper frame of mind that Day Bang advocates will make you seem more attractive to not only women, but to others in your every day life. Rejection will happen, but Day Bang will help you to learn to laugh it off and try, try again.

Day Bang is a reference book that tells you how to pick up women during the day. It is the second Installment to his first book: Bang. Bang was the best game book I have ever read and changed my life, if you don't have it get it NOW. Day Bang builds on the first book Bang. Bang provides the groundwork and tools to began doing well with women. While Bang is a must have, because it paves the ground work, the pick up methods focus on night venues, which is much different than meeting women during the day. I first read Bang before Day Bang was released. I saw quick results, but was using some of the techniques during the day and found that they were to aggressive for Women out at that time. Have you ever noticed how many beutiful women are in coffee shops, supermarkets, libraries, bookstores and on the streets during the day? Then you go to the bars or night clubs and the ladies look trashy or you are competing with a million other guys just to talk to them. I knew how to talk to ladies, but had no idea how to do it during the day; when i would see the best looking, most interesting and most date-able girls. Day Bang brings your game full circle. It describes how and what to say to girls during the day. How to act, what to talk about, how to get them to like you, and how to get them on dates and in the sack. I am still working to refine my day game. I re-read Day Bang constantly. The book works and allows you to be your natural self while molding your approach techniques to get girls to want you. I bought it the first week it came out. If you really want to find the woman of your dreams buy Bang and Day Bang, read them and then get out and start pulling ladies.

It's not bad. It's actually pretty good. It inspired me to approach women during the day, when they least expect it. I had a massive amount of success doing that. So much better than wasting your time and money going out at night when throngs of drunk and dooshy men are just annoying all the women they see. Day Game is definitely where it's at when it comes to meeting quality women. Bang and Day Bang are two critical books for any dude who wants to meet the women of his dreams. Also read The Game by Neil Strauss.

Written when the author was in his late twenties, the book is about picking up women during the day at stores, on the street, etc. The positives: You've got to talk to a lot of women, and know how to push the conversation along (sort of like a pushy salesman or annoying person at a cocktail party who won't let you go.) He gives conversation scripts. The negatives: Most women will be courteous when you ask for directions and such, but once it becomes clear (and it will be, women ain't dumb) that it was only a pretext and you're really pushing for more (date, phone number etc.) you won't get far. Think about it, the only kind of woman who would get picked up by a stranger is someone who can't find a guy through work, school, friends, parties, etc. Just an average woman has interested guys trying all the time. The only time a public venue pickup will work is 1) if you're an incredibly "hot" guy (maybe top 5%) and by definition 95% of us are not that or 2) if nobody she meets at work, school, etc, is interested in her (word may have gotten around that she's a bit psycho, and thus she wants someone who hasn't heard anything about her. I know the above from experience in high school and college, trying to "pick up" girls in public places. It's a common male fantasy (which is why a book promising this sells well.) Not to rain on your parade, give it a try if you want, but move on if it doesn't work for you. Another negative has to do with the script. Because of the book's success, men will follow the script and women will have heard it a ton of times.

This is a book for the people who want to take it a step at a time, without being too direct thus less risk of rejection. Here are some concepts I liked: -How your actions of initiation are minuscule but can turn to happy rewards. -Shows objective point of view about beliefs. -Puts ideas into perspective with worse things that could happen. -No blatant over-promising but rather realistic explanations of expected results. -Provides good openers used in context to help you remember them. Keen and unpredictable sense of humor with quotes such as: "avoid eye contact otherwise she may try to talk to you or ask you for food". Another favorite quote: "socks should be ridiculous because its' the only way you can tell the world to go to hell." This one too: She'll say " Actually yeah, I just remembered I have to clean my vagina tonight." It's a mix of scientific studies with a touch of dry comedy. I wasn't too thrilled with the "galnuc" method because it seems like a last resort method to close the interaction. It also goes against the author's previous statements which suggested not to ask personal questions before giving getting indicators of interest. Now here's something you won't find in many other books. Roosh discusses topics on how to ask about gadgets or something the girl is using so that the girl seems like the expert and will extend the conversation due to her motherly instincts to help share her knowledge. Roosh gives you the bait and tackle box for game ....almost literally. You learn how to make your introductions innocuous yet appetizing for the girl to hear more. Prior to reading this book, I've made quality girlfriends in the past by the methods mentioned for stores.

I discovered "Day Bang" some three or four years ago while browsing various titles on dating for men. At the time, I had no idea who (author) Roosh was. What made me purchase a copy? I visited the author's website and saw a picture of him. It was what has come to be known as a typical Roosh pose--sitting cross-legged, looking at the camera, thinking. Guys who know Roosh through his blogs and videos have come to appreciate him as an astute man. University-educated. An independent thinker. What I also discovered, those years ago through a brief visit to his website, was a spiritual side. Even though most (if not all) of his books at the time were about picking up women. And that inkling motivated that initial purchase. As for "Day Bang" and its contents, it became clear to me that Roosh was a fellow to whom I could relate. Take note, that is even though I am happily married with children. I'm probably not the target audience for anything in Roosh's "Bang" series. Nonetheless, I found the book full of practical advice and specific tips for getting outside of a man's comfort zone and meeting new people. Or, attractive women, specifically. I really enjoyed Roosh's scientific approach to interactions with females. I have an engineering degree and could relate to his process of trial and error. The aspect of his interactions with females (strangers) that I appreciated most was his description of something he terms "elderly chat". That is essentially treating every interaction as though you are speaking with an elderly person in a nursing home or on a park bench. We've all done that. It's easy, it's unthreatening, and we all pre-suppose that the (elderly) person will appreciate the attention. I've tried Roosh's "elderly chat" with all types of people, from attractive women to actual elderly people to... well, anyone. And it works. The thing about that exercise, and others that Roosh advocates in "Day Bang", is that you realize a certain amount of momentum once you get down to the task. Having written this review, I'm going to give "Day Bang" a fresh look. That's the thing about it and other good books. You want to keep coming back to them over a number of years. I also want to point out that through my initial purchase of "Day Bang" I have followed Roosh and his evolution to wider topics such as free speech, travel and self-improvement for men. He may not be everyone's cup of tea, but he resonates with me.

Gut gelauntes, konstruktives, lehrreiches Buch, welches einem Konversationsgeschick und Gewandheit vermitteln kann. Für mich gab es viele Aha-Erlebnisse und eher wenig Neues.

Great book full of insight

Day Bang by Roosh V is about one thing. Talking. Specifically about how men should talk to women they don't know in order to get to know them better. The book explains how to start talking to a woman, "opening", how to keep talking to a woman, "rambling", and how to end the conversation by getting details like the phone number, to be able to talk to her again later and befriend her, "closing". The book also covers how to talk to women in different locations such as the street or the grocery shop. This is the sole purpose of this book. There is nothing untoward or lewd whatsoever in the entire book. This book is applicable to any man looking to get to know a woman for any reason. This book has more in common with books like "The Fine Art of Small Talk" than with any other book by Roosh. If you are, like me, stumbling and falling down trying to talk to women, then I would recommend this book.

It has a whole list of examples you can count on. I really liked this book, and just willing to apply this to my life.

I've studied a lot on dating for men and this fills in the gaps on why day game is hard and what to do. Roosh explains how to approach and open and then close by getting a number. He is an exceptionally good writer and very funny. He uses metaphors really well so that you can picture his concepts. For example, the harmless elderly opener and elderly chat was explained in detail and very entertainingly. This is exactly what I need to fill in the gaps in my knowledge as I like to have a framework and didn't know how to open a conversation and then what to do to get a number and as I said, I've studied this area a lot when I was younger.